Her.
I started to hate the idea of being a woman when I actually understood how Amma is living her life. I always asked myself why isn't she living one like other. Little did I know that she didn't choose this life. Despite the boundaries, being first in her class and working as a ship designer, she was still bound to the four walls of the house. She didn't become the woman she wished to be, but she indeed became a woman who inspires me to thrive .  She learned to stitch, learned to bake, learned to do embroidery, and even learned to make jewelry. But oh, that didn't help either. She couldn't make a living with all of it as she wished. I found it strange how she is always addressed as a housewife even in my self introduction, because the term 'housewife' had no sort of value since then. I wondered why this talented woman was confined to a single thing that defined 'powerless' in the society which in fact is not. My hate on 'patriarchy' was for ...